{"id":28516,"date":"2025-09-23T16:52:26","date_gmt":"2025-09-23T20:52:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/valuecare.wpgamma.com\/?p=28516"},"modified":"2025-09-23T16:52:26","modified_gmt":"2025-09-23T20:52:26","slug":"fears-dark-secret","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/valuecare.wpgamma.com\/index.php\/2025\/09\/23\/fears-dark-secret\/","title":{"rendered":"Fear\u2019s Dark Secret"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"entry clearfloat\">\n<p>By Steve Chandler www.ClubFearless.net I learned a fascinating thing about fear: it has its own fear! If I move toward my fear, not away from it, it will start to lose its nerve. If I am afraid of confronting a co-worker, I can confront him without at first confronting him. I can move toward him and ask questions. I allow him to pour his heart and soul out to me. If I am afraid of jumping out of an airplane, I can sneak up on it by jumping off a chair, then jumping off a roof, then jumping a few times off a tower, so that I\u2019m doing it but not yet really doing it. When I feared public speaking I practiced my talk to one person, then to three people, then to a team meeting, then to the mirror 20 times, so I was doing it without doing it. If I\u2019m afraid of dogs I can buy a puppy, which is not really a dog yet, and raise the puppy. With fear, I need to outsmart the fear because fear gets embarrassed easily<\/p>\n<p>See the rest here:<br \/>\n<a title=\"Fear\u2019s Dark Secret\" href=\"http:\/\/www.losethebackpain.com\/blog\/2010\/11\/29\/fears-dark-secret\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Fear\u2019s Dark Secret<\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: red;\"><strong>Enrich your life and the lives of others<\/strong><\/span><span style=\"color: blue;\">\u00a0by learning Aromatherapy, Reflexology or Color\/Crystal Therapy at the\u00a0<\/span><a href=\"http:\/\/www.alternativehealingacademy.com\/\" target=\"_new\"><strong>Alternative Healing Academy<\/strong><\/a>!\u00a0<span style=\"color: blue;\">Convenient and easy-to-handle payment plans are available!<\/span><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>By Steve Chandler www.ClubFearless.net I learned a fascinating thing about fear: it has its own fear! If I move toward my fear, not away from it, it will start to lose its nerve. If I am afraid of confronting a co-worker, I can confront him without at first confronting him. I can move toward him [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[46],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-28516","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-pain-management"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/valuecare.wpgamma.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28516","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/valuecare.wpgamma.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/valuecare.wpgamma.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/valuecare.wpgamma.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/valuecare.wpgamma.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=28516"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/valuecare.wpgamma.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28516\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/valuecare.wpgamma.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=28516"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/valuecare.wpgamma.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=28516"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/valuecare.wpgamma.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=28516"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}